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Giving Up

We’re taught from a young age to dream big, go after what we want, plan our work, work our plan.  This culture-wide forward-thinking mindset has blossomed into achievements as diverse as iPhones, space flight, ultra-marathons and gene splicing.  But it’s also helped create anxiety, depression, unrest and a feeling for many that, since our achievements aren’t as grand as our dreams, we’re living a meaningless life. The moment of reckoning between the fantasy of our dreams and the reality of our lives often surfaces during critical illness.  The door of future possibilities slams shut when the doctor says, ‘Cancer’; or…

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Facing Fear

I quit my job yesterday.  Walking away from that final meeting with my supervisor, I realized that I left more than a job – I left an identity.  I’ve been training for, reading about, studying, practicing and teaching health care chaplaincy for 11 years, and as I exited my supervisor’s door I stepped into a world that no longer included daily contact with those skills and with the people I served.  I was suddenly full of questions:  Without meeting my patient’s suffering, who am I?  Without the moment to moment practice of allowing uncertainty, will I lose touch?  Without the…

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